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The Ex-wife and Me
We've been divorced for a little over a
year and have two kids just under ten (twins).
For some reason, we just can't stop
bringing up the stupid and negative stuff that sent us to divorce in the
first place. It seems as though we can't just be pleasant and decent
human beings. What drives people to this?
Separating from someone we're used to
being with is a difficult thing on its own. Add kids and other
couple's things into the mix and you have stress enough for years to
come.
It doesn't have to be that way all the
time. We choose what moods we're going to accept into our day
and from there we gauge our reactions.
CHOOSE to allow the past to remain in
the land of So What. Let it remain where it is supposed to
be...in the past. Choose not to go down that road of rehashing old
fights. No one benefits. Everyone loses.
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