Promotion At Cost
I'm up for a big promotion and raise at
work, but the new boss is an ex-boyfriend. We didn't part of good
terms, although I know he feels I'm qualified for the job.
You must read your own emotions
regarding this situation. Money and position aren't always worth
it in an uncomfortable circumstance. When old issues resurface and
throw us off course, we have to use our emotions to figure out where we
need to be.
When you feel or picture yourself in
that job, at that desk, in that promotion, and you think of him standing
at the door to speak to you, do you feel uncomfortable or
comfortable. Do you think working with him will make you too
These are the emotions that should
gauge your decision. Others might natter at you about the money or
prestige, but that's not worth it when you're unhappy day after day.