I Like This Guy

I like this really popular guy and I'm not one of the popular people. How can I get him to notice me and ask me out? Am I setting myself up for disappointment?

Well first things first. What do you know about him? If this is just a case of him being cute, then you need to think about that. If you haven't talked to him at all, or if you have but its been too short to get to know him, that's step #1. He could be a complete jerk or a total basket case. Or he could be a sweetheart, but if you don't already know, you need to find out.

If you already know what he's like because you know him, then you're already past step #2, which is talking to him (because you can't really get to know anyone unless you communicate with them.. talking, typing, interpretive dance, pick your favorite and go for it).

Step #3 is making sure there is a possibility that he feels the same about you. If he's dating a girl he's really into or whatever, don't just throw yourself at him. If he's single, then start out small. Coffee, or something simple and not overly romantic, unless it seems like he'd be interested in a more "date-like" atmosphere, like a movie or dinner.

The rest is up to how he reacts to you and he spending time together. If he seems like he enjoys being with you, then ask him if he'd be interested on going on a date. You have to open your eyes and pay attention to his vibe. If he seems like he doesn't want to hang out with you, or if he blows you off, take a hint, let the whole thing go, and then go find yourself someone who does want to be with you.